Part 2

DO feel qualified for

  • choosing a bangin’ pair of kicks for any occasion! preferably a reebok classic or a vintage new balance
  • picking out a pair of Jeans that will look good on my husband without even having him try them on
  • arguing my point
  • always having a comeback
  • stalking people on social media and retaining meaningless information about them
Those things I can do, blindfolded! But leading people, nope, I’m not the greatest. I’m like a firm C+. So why are you reading this? I don’t know, Maybe you’re bored or maybe you are imperfect just like me and God has asked you to step into stewarding people. If so, then you are in the right place. So, instead of telling you how great I am during this portion of these posts I’ll share with you my ROYAL screw ups so maybe you won’t do the same. Hopefully these mishaps will help you while leading and navigating your the workplace, ministry or in your family.  

1. LEAD.

I am incredibly relational, and at the beginning of this journey I treated my team like family. I still do, and its awesome, but at the beginning I treated them more like siblings who I asked for stuff on occasion, instead of people I was gifted to steward and teach. I blame this technique on being a Latina and wanting everyone to be happy and fed all the time. But in ministry, in the workplace and even in my own personal life people will always need a leader. Because I didn’t lead AT ALL and I just kindly let them blaze their own trails, in moments where I had to step in and correct I instead offended, and started fires I couldn’t put out. And those fires fed new fires and it burned the paper town I had built to the ground. Because I never stepped UP, neither did they, and instead we were all just hanging out on the same step filling the space with smoke and bitterness. And because I cared more about being keeping the non existent peace, I stopped teaching, stopped innovating, stopped inspiring, I just stopped. I’m not proud of this at all. It’s a bit embarrassing, but I’m sharing this JUST IN CASE someone else out there has been thrown in the deep end of leadership with no floaties.  If you are not careful, you’ll drowned and worse yet, others will follow suit. So if you are in a position to go first, GO! Collaboration is great, we do it A LOT, but sometimes you’re going to need to just make the hard decisions and own it! Sometimes you’re just going to have to love people through correction and say no even when it means an eye roll is coming. You are doing a disservice to those who are following behind you if you don’t step up…so step up.  


I don’t like to be wrong. It mainly stems from the fact that I am rarely wrong. I am not being proud, like I am totally usually right. Its  the worst thing ever because in moments where I do fail or make a wrong decision, its the worst! And if I am super honest, I don’t deal with it well.  Leading people means saying I’m sorry first, and admitting when you’ve made a bad call. And not just admitting it, but learning from it. For example: I have a kid on my team who is the YODA of PRINT! Like this kid could teach at any conference, has wisdom beyond her years and has the greatest ideas. I made a call recently that wasn’t the right one regarding the area she helps me oversee. Once I realized the error I made the switch and I totally took her advice she initially suggested and gave her credit in front of our entire team. Why? Because I made a bad call, because your circle, my circle needs to know that we have their back and we believe and trust in their feedback. I am not striving to be a great leader, I’m not even sure if I’m a good leader. I just want to push my circle further and higher than I will ever go. So that means making bad decisions might happen more than I’d like. Pioneering is messy, and that’s what I want to be great at. Making roads where there’s never been a road, and that my friends means sometimes leading people down a dead end or a dangerous trail. Its not ideal, but its okay. It’s okay to fail, but don’t be known for your failures, be known for your comebacks!  


I taught and modeled for a hot minute that you needed to find inspiration in order to thrive in the creative field. I did this until I could no longer find anything that inspired me. I realized in that drought that as a result I needed to live inspired instead. For the CREATIVE, life is not always filled with moments calling to be captured, ideal locals screaming to be explored, music that moves you, or stories that deserve to be told. Sadly, many look at those seasons of drought as a stifling of their creativity instead of a call to truly live with an understanding of who the creator is and what He’s actually doing.  Real life, like the life that pays bills is usually filled with a 9 to 5 you may not be happy with, tiny lunch breaks, mundane design pieces, numerous edits asked by non-designers and no space for adventures. But its in those droughts where you remember that the only creator is God and it’s our job to replicate what He’s doing in heaven on the earth. So instead of finding inspiration, sit, close your eyes, pray in the spirit, and gain a new perspective. Creativity isn’t its best when cultivated in total freedom, its its best when cultivated with boundaries and time-frames. Its only there in the boundaries and deadlines that we innovate and view the wall of opposition as a roof that needs to be lifted.   Stay Gangster! Chari]]>

How I read the Bible.

  • historical context
  • relevant tie in’s
  • easy to read / understand
  • and made sure as I read the Bible now as an adult  that I try to incorporate the above. How do I do that? // I read books about the history of the early church, the Jewish faith, and those with secular perspectives on Jesus and Christianity. Because I can’t live my entire life stuck in a Bible for teens I have to constantly push myself to understand the History and the context in which the Bible was written. If I understand the context then I won’t misinterpret the cultural references and I won’t feel like the disciples and Jesus are constantly referencing inside jokes that I don’t get. I long to understand the Bible, so I strive to learn all I can surrounding it, even the uncomfortable stuff ( I’ll write about this another day. ) // I write down everything & I read small.  I read various versions of the Bible at any given time and each version has a journal. I am currently unearthing the book of Matthew, section by section in the NKJV. I have a journal that has every thought, revelation, question, and story I can think of that helps me understand each portion. I am also reading through the Prophets in THE VOICE, there’s a journal with that journey as well. I find that I  don’t forget the revelation if I write it down and I can always go back and use these journals as a reference. // Highlighters are a must-have! I highlight, circle, underline, and mark up my Bibles. Before it even hits my journal, its been noted in my Bible. Whether I use it in a sermon, or if I just want to remind myself that God spoke to me, I highlight it. I even write down the dates in which I read it, or alongside the word God’s downloaded to me. Many times I’ll read something I read YEARS before and the prophetic word God gave me in my reading will revive something in me. I am a firm believer that God speaks CONSTANTLY and CONSISTENTLY to us. We just aren’t necessarily listening or we are bogged down with the LOUDER things in life. If you HIGHLIGHT the TRUTH of God’s word then its will always stick out to you in moments when you desperately need it. For me, the Bible is my compass. It helps me navigate the deep vastness of eternity that calls unto the deep vastness of the temporal and it’s our job to journey through it. If we do it well we will encounter God in amazing ways, and we can help others understand and experience our creator as well. Here’s to discovering and exploring WHO God is, WHAT He has in store, and the part in which we play. xo Chari            ]]>

    Part 1

    cue the throwing up sound ) I secretly wished I could just close my eyes and be back in that beautiful office where all I grabbed lunch for my favorite person, gleaned from her wisdom and designed social media graphics. But alas, time always pushes us reluctantly forward, and as usual begins to reveal all things. And its in that moment where you  have to be BRAVE enough to STEP UP and IN to what God has for you…even when it’s tough, even when you don’t feel qualified. And that moment for me looked like having the new gig for only a few months and then because God has jokes I was gifted with and entirely new department! My amazing 2 team members merged with another team and there were 9 of us! It was in that moment I put on my best brave face and thought internally, “I don’t want to be a boss! Like, for real Jesus, I never asked for any of this!” When I was young being the boss sounded kind of glamorous. But in real life, at least for me, it was like coming to realization that I was Michael Scott from the Office!  And by that I mean, stewarding people brought  to the forefront that I was no longer the funny, young one who could get away with saying inappropriate things. And I was pretty certain everyone around me had an inside joke I wasn’t privy to. I won’t lie being the boss was hard, is hard, will always be hard; but being gifted with people is the greatest gift ever! I’ve learned some things along the way that I hope by sharing them that it will encourage you. Even if you’re not the boss yet, you can be eventually; and if you’re not leading people right now you are leading yourself. Regardless of what you oversee, you are meant to steward it well. So these next few posts will be the things I’ve learned, the things I’ve done poorly, and in some form I’ll try to debunk the myths behind what it looks like to be in charge. Oh the myths! There are so many. But for today I’ll reiterate what I said above…every job I had before the dream job prepared me for the dream job. Every customer I had to deal with, every file I had to organize, every diaper I was asked to change. Every bit of it taught me how to treat people, and people after all matter to God. So wherever you find yourself today, know that it’s preparing you for tomorrow. Whatever you are putting your hand to, do it well, do it with a smile and treat people kindly. Be on the look out for Part 2…   Chari]]>